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| Tyron a écrit: | | elle a écrit: | SO I just asked a guy friend, here is what he thinks
Even for the little situation black women tend to run their mouths and get over dramatic, and it is a huge turn off |
Black girls = Drama queens number one !!!!  |
not drama queen just attitude for no reason 
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| elle a écrit: | SO I just asked a guy friend, here is what he thinks
Even for the little situation black women tend to run their mouths and get over dramatic, and it is a huge turn off
Men should give their answers on the topic |
see? that's why i put it here because I asked most of my guy friends and they all agreed. black women have too much attitudes and they are turned off by that
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| Ifunanya a écrit: |
As for me, I used to be a very sweet girl, as well and now, I too won't take shit from nobody. Does that mean I have an attitude no, I don't think so because if anything goes wrong with my boyfriend, either I pull him aside and talk to him, or tell him to get his stuff and leave. Does that attitude make me less desirable? hmmm Tyra just needs to get it together coz that girl is trippin' |
+ N sinon, on dirait que la 1ere phrase la s'applique a toutes les gos du State hein. J'ai un ami qui me dit souvent que l'erreur que ma mere a commise c'etait de m'envoyer ici parce que America m'a change! hihihihi
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| Magne a écrit: | | Ifunanya a écrit: | | Magne a écrit: | she is in a process of getting a degree in business administration as of this year.
It was just a discussion panel they made and a survey those were the results. so now I don't know if this is all black men who voted or anything... |
Ok what were the whole results of the survey? because it is really important to make an allegation like this one.
| Citation: | | Ifunanya seriously tho so u dont think black women have an attitude problem? and mostly it's coming from our past relationships. Im talking for myself, I used to be a sweet submissive and loving girl but as time went by i became less sweet with the "I won't take shit from nobody" attitude. see what im saying? and I guess that's where Tyra was bringing the debate... |
Ok, first of all you have two kinds of black women. You have the black african women and the you have the black american women, and certainly, from her own origin, you can tell she was talking about black american women. Even in that case I still don't think black women are the least desired because of their attitudes. I don't know what criterias they based their survey, on but this is just some kind of ridiculous affirmations. For me, many things have to be taken in considerations in order to draw conclusions like that, like for example, black women background, condition of living, the kind of men they're dealing with etc...
As for me, I used to be a very sweet girl, as well and now, I too won't take shit from nobody. Does that mean I have an attitude no, I don't think so because if anything goes wrong with my boyfriend, either I pull him aside and talk to him, or tell him to get his stuff and leave. Does that attitude make me less desirable? hmmm Tyra just needs to get it together coz that girl is trippin' |
the results were, all black women are the least desirable because of their attitude.
I understand the differentiation you made about black african women and black american women. But let me tell u that more and more I see black african women behave like akatas? I mean just straight up trying to be akata, hand in the face, yelling their independence, I don't know if they are just trying to fit in but it's quite disturbing. |
Please Magne, I will stop you right there! What about Mexican women? those who behave like akata more than akatas themselves? This whole thing is straight up bullshit. It's all about: you're black, you have an attitude, therefore you are less desirable
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Im not talking about mexican. their result from their survey wasn't interesting to me. I am trying to understand the non desireable part of that survey as well trust me. but the attitude part im sorry but it's true/ Im not saying men dont have a part to play in that and truthfully black women do have an attitude problem when it comes to dealing with problems. i guess im talking about black american women. but now im african so im trying to see if people think we as africans do the same...
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| Magne a écrit: | Ifu
Im not talking about mexican. their result from their survey wasn't interesting to me. I am trying to understand the non desireable part of that survey as well trust me. but the attitude part im sorry but it's true/ Im not saying men dont have a part to play in that and truthfully black women do have an attitude problem when it comes to dealing with problems. i guess im talking about black american women. but now im african so im trying to see if people think we as africans do the same... |
I, personally have an attitude problem when it comes to friends or family,but definitely not with guys.Besides I am stubborn. So, if they consider stubborness as ''having an attitude'' then I claim it. I do have one. But does that make me less desireable ...? I don't think so? Like Ifu asked earlier, what does that have to do with attitude? Is Tyra tryna explain to people why she still ain't married??? LoL who cares? She isn't a Berinaute. Some' might have told her about 2015 contest . Tell her she is not concerned please. She can chill.
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| Magne a écrit: | Ifu
Im not talking about mexican. their result from their survey wasn't interesting to me. I am trying to understand the non desireable part of that survey as well trust me. but the attitude part im sorry but it's true/ Im not saying men dont have a part to play in that and truthfully black women do have an attitude problem when it comes to dealing with problems. i guess im talking about black american women. but now im african so im trying to see if people think we as africans do the same... |
No, the way it is said, it is as if people are trying to link the whole attitude thing to race, which sounds really stupid to me. You agree with me that mexican women too have attitude right? sometimes even more than akattas women but why aren't they "declared" less desirable for that? My whole point in this is, attitude is not a characteristic peculiar to a specific type of people so they should stop that nonsense.
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| L'integree a écrit: | | Magne a écrit: | Ifu
Im not talking about mexican. their result from their survey wasn't interesting to me. I am trying to understand the non desireable part of that survey as well trust me. but the attitude part im sorry but it's true/ Im not saying men dont have a part to play in that and truthfully black women do have an attitude problem when it comes to dealing with problems. i guess im talking about black american women. but now im african so im trying to see if people think we as africans do the same... |
I, personally have an attitude problem when it comes to friends or family,but definitely not with guys.Besides I am stubborn. So, if they consider stubborness as ''having an attitude'' then I claim it. I do have one. But does that make me less desireable ...? I don't think so? Like Ifu asked earlier, what does that have to do with attitude? Is Tyra tryna explain to people why she still ain't married??? LoL who cares? She isn't a Berinaute. Some' might have told her about 2015 . Tell her she is not concerned please. She can chill. |
just because I am your friend and I know u since the end of times I will not accept this statement from u/ My friend you are not stubborn you are hard headed. u want to do things the way u think u should do them and when it gets bad u learn ur lesson. Plus u were not hard-headed like this when i first knew u... u became that way and the reasons u and i know why I will not say it here.
being stubborn is not a reason why black women are not desirable nope i don't think that's the pb. maybe if we keep talking we will find the real reasons I mean im sure there are explanations from these conclusion man that was disturbing to me. I want to know about it
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| Ifunanya a écrit: | | Magne a écrit: | Ifu
Im not talking about mexican. their result from their survey wasn't interesting to me. I am trying to understand the non desireable part of that survey as well trust me. but the attitude part im sorry but it's true/ Im not saying men dont have a part to play in that and truthfully black women do have an attitude problem when it comes to dealing with problems. i guess im talking about black american women. but now im african so im trying to see if people think we as africans do the same... |
No, the way it is said, it is as if people are trying to link the whole attitude thing to race, which sounds really stupid to me. You agree with me that mexican women too have attitude right? sometimes even more than akattas women but why aren't they "declared" less desirable for that? My whole point in this is, attitude is not a characteristic peculiar to a specific type of people so they should stop that nonsense. |
I agree mexican have attitudes too yes I agree. im glad i asked here so i can get people to tell reasons why they may think this is true
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LoL my friend . So, ''stubborn'' was too soft huh?I am hard headed? loooool
You're right ! I never used to be like that... But as you know ..'' L'homme nait bon, c est la societe qui le corrompt''
As far as Tyra is concerned, i don't agree with her, coz like i keep saying. I don't see the link.
If you take a sample on this forum. Most guys will tell you for example (if u look at their previous answers to similars questions) they will rather have a beautiful wife with an attitude than an ugly one with good habits. Furthermore,if we're talking about attraction here, whenever a man is attracted or approaches a woman, he has no clue of all that. All he's looking at is her beauty,her curves,her tone,the way she's dressed,the way she talks etc etc etc... He won't know if she has an attitude or not until he really gets to know her...except if he has a really crazy one that will show her real face on the fist date.
Now, if Tyra was saying most african women get divorced because of their attitude or most black women don't get married because of their attitude, it could be undrstandable (evenhough still arguable) ...Desire doesn't have anything to do with attitude. Most men are dogs, they just need a hole to do whatever they wanna do. Now if the ''hole'' has an attitude YES the owner can become undesirable...lol.
Well, i am entitled to my opinion...
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| L'integree a écrit: | Most men are dogs, they just need a hole to do whatever they wanna do. Now if the ''hole'' has an attitude YES the owner can become undesirable...lol.
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| elle a écrit: | | L'integree a écrit: | Most men are dogs, they just need a hole to do whatever they wanna do. Now if the ''hole'' has an attitude YES the owner can become undesirable...lol.
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now, faut pas confondre 'attitude' with 'voice'
meaning expressing their opinions, voicing the injustice done to them on a daily basis.
What is 'attitude' for you?
Why are 'African Women' different than 'African American Women'?
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LoL my friend . So, ''stubborn'' was too soft huh?I am hard headed? loooool
You're right ! I never used to be like that... But as you know ..'' L'homme nait bon, c est la societe qui le corrompt''
As far as Tyra is concerned, i don't agree with her, coz like i keep saying. I don't see the link.
If you take a sample on this forum. Most guys will tell you for example (if u look at their previous answers to similars questions) they will rather have a beautiful wife with an attitude than an ugly one with good habits. Furthermore,if we're talking about attraction here, whenever a man is attracted or approaches a woman, he has no clue of all that. All he's looking at is her beauty,her curves,her tone,the way she's dressed,the way she talks etc etc etc... He won't know if she has an attitude or not until he really gets to know her...except if he has a really crazy one that will show her real face on the fist date.
Now, if Tyra was saying most african women get divorced because of their attitude or most black women don't get married because of their attitude, it could be undrstandable (evenhough still arguable) ...Desire doesn't have anything to do with attitude. Most men are dogs, they just need a hole to do whatever they wanna do. Now if the ''hole'' has an attitude YES the owner can become undesirable...lol.
Well, i am entitled to my opinion... |
I took the desirable part as she was meaning most black women are the least desired when guys are trying to get married. that's how i took it/ I dont know if that's what she meant but that's what I understood from the whole thing. see what im saying?
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zut alors je me suis trompee de forum c'est seule explication possible meme dsl les filles
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| Zinap a écrit: | | zut alors je me suis trompee de forum c'est seule explication possible meme dsl les filles |
ziii, je crois que pr qu elles te comprennent, tu dois dire un truc coe "Y'all ain't SERIOUS, isn't it?".
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| PrettyWoman a écrit: | | Zinap a écrit: | | zut alors je me suis trompee de forum c'est seule explication possible meme dsl les filles |
ziii, je crois que pr qu elles te comprennent, tu dois dire un truc coe "Y'all ain't SERIOUS, isn't it?". |
Really?!?
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je vois que le topic c pr les anglos hein?n restez avec
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| hibiscus a écrit: | | je vois que le topic c pr les anglos hein?n restez avec |
sans oublier de charger dans le kumba bread looool
pa'a fi tu es où??
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| PrettyWoman a écrit: | | Zinap a écrit: | | zut alors je me suis trompee de forum c'est seule explication possible meme dsl les filles |
ziii, je crois que pr qu elles te comprennent, tu dois dire un truc coe "Y'all ain't SERIOUS, isn't it?". |
je ne pouvais ne pas quoter l'autre ci
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