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[Ifunanya]

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I've been all over the world, and everywhere I go people tell me about the true Gods. They all think they found the right one. The one true God is what's between a woman's leg...

[Ifunanya]

[Mbindaman]

[BlackBadu]

[F**k U]

Et moi alors ?
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[BlackBadu]

Alright, let's have this back up...
guyz n girlz, listen ( or read)...
Have a friend who is Indian and he fell in love with a Germano-American woman here. At first glimpse, quite a nice picture right? Thing is, his family rejected him completely because of this union that he is going to seal on the 8th of December. a couple of reasons:

1- the woman is not Indian. Indians are very particular about lookig for a wife for their boys but he "sinned" by not only letting his family choose but also choosing one who is not indian

2- the woman is divorced. Many families would not understand a young guy who's never been married going for a divorcee

3-the woman is 10 years older than my friend...he is 26 and she is 36.

4- the woman has a teenage girl of 15.

He was trying to talk his family into accepting this but they refused. He was even planning to go to India and have a face-to-face discussion with the family, but they argued on the phone and the family told him off, that he was not their son anymore and that kind of stuff...

What would you have done if you were B, let's call my friend B.
Now put yourself in the shoes of the family, would you have gone as far as rejecting your son just because he is getting hooked with some non-indian girl?
What about your families? do you think some have the tendency to be that way?

Well, let me know what you think

[Mbindaman]

[Ifunanya]

[Tagni]

Magni, you have a pretty cute smile . I m lovin' it
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[Ifunanya]

[L'integree]

I need a big dick inside me oh lord!
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[BlackBadu]

Hey D', H&M c encore kelle rubrique? Hennes & Mauritz? loooollll

I hear ya Electra and I mostly agree with you. But I think, B did not try hard to talk his parents into accepting his decision. He was planning to go talk to them face to face in India. After that phone call, he cancelled the trip.
Sometimes, I think we do not try hard enough to go into other people's shoes...Not all parents are modern and advanced in their way of thinking. His Dad is an engineer who worked in all kinds of places. B was born in Mauritius yep yep...
My point is sometimes, we need to educate our parents. All the reasons you gave up there Electra, it would have been good for B to discuss them face-to-face with his parents. And to be patient at it because it is a completely new concept and it will take some time to unroot the old way of thinking. So for me, B did not fight hard enough to maintain his relationship or at least communication with his parents and that is the sad part. Because if things go pear shape with his lady ( not wishing them that but there is always an eventuality), he just might need the support of his family. Given the way he has handled the situation right now, it would require much more effort and humility to ga ask for forgiveness and still he would not have achieved the honorable goal of getting his family to accept change.

[F**k U]

[silazor]

[silazor]

Ifunanya i read your reply to Black dudu's story
i wanted to congratulate u for your english level . it was really nice
i must also admit you gave very good argument and one can directly see you are defending black dudu's friend decision and comdemned his family's reaction or attitudes.
however i would like to be a little inconsistent with your point of view.
i was thinking like few years ago but
for have been experiencing many relationship with german's woman
i can now understand the family's position.
i wouldn't say i made only bad experiences with german womans on the contrary it's was a great pleasure . however i can affirm u that for a stable relation most of german woman are not the wisely choice .
the major problem is in the habits. at the beginning all seem to be wonderfull but both of partners just don't want see the reality they try hiding differences but anyhow the time comes when it's become unable/ no more possible to hide and things start going from bad to worse downhil .
yes we shouldn't generalize this fact but it's occuring in most of the case.
i can just wish to black dudu's friend he didn't regret his decision one day


"go out of the circle" is really a good thing . anyone should experience that. me i already made the round of all country except some few country
i took my experiences and i am not complaining . every dog's have his day

PS: when will BD reply to her own subject?
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